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Ping Pong at Patpong, Bangkok, Thailand

14/7/2018

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Ping Pong Show at Patpong night market Bangkok, Thailand red light district. Sex Tourism or Sexy Show? Feet Do Travel
It’s interesting how, over time, your memory of an experience can change and you remember things differently.  An example of this was my visit to a Ping Pong show in the Patpong district of the night market Bangkok – the infamous “entertainment” show where ladies perform “tricks” from their nether regions!

Tourism in this Thailand red light district area drives the economy, and is a lucrative income for everyone involved. It is estimated that the Thai Sex Industry is worth 260 BILLION Baht (over US $8 million/GBP £6 million).

In 2004 the area was decreed an official “entertainment zone” by the government, and venues stay open until 2am. If it’s officially classed as “entertainment” it can’t be bad or immoral, right? Prostitution in Thailand is illegal so surely there’s no harm in a ping pong show?

If the delectable Bradley Cooper can hang out here in “The Hangover 2”, it’s got to be good for grins. There is even a “Bangkok Hangover Tour” which takes you to the nightlife areas experienced in the movie, including Patpong, so how wrong can it be?

What were my thoughts, as a liberal thinking woman, whilst watching a controversial tourist show?
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Ping Pong Show at Patpong night market Bangkok, Thailand red light district. Sex Tourism or Sexy Show? Feet Do Travel
​It’s confession time. I visited Thailand in an era when it was cool to ride elephants and cuddling a tiger was cute. Oh how little I knew. Young and naïve to the horrors of the world within “entertainment”, I visited a Ping Pong show believing it would be similar to a strip club or something I had seen on TV. Like in the movies; girls on stage dancing around sexily, corner booths filled with rich people drinking bottles of chilled champagne. Yes I have a wild imagination.
Ping Pong Show at Patpong night market Bangkok, Thailand red light district. Sex Tourism or Sexy Show? Feet Do Travel
As an open-minded, liberal thinker, I have been to Amsterdam many times and am not fazed by the red light district. The sex industry in Amsterdam is a legal business. The ladies pay a lot of money for the booths and pay tax on their earnings, in return, the government ensures all prostitutes have access to medical care.

Standards are monitored, the workers have their own union and plenty of police protection. Private bodyguards employed by the girls are always on duty to protect and look out for them.

Being curious about the sex industry in Amsterdam, I visited the “Museum of Prostitution”. I had a chance to go into a “booth” for a glimpse into what it’s like to be on the inside looking out.

​On the walls of the Museum are stories about the different types of women who work there, some people choose this high paying profession, yet others are forced into it for various reasons. 

Prostitution in Thailand is an entirely different story.

Ping Pong Show at Patpong night market Bangkok, Thailand red light district. Sex Tourism or Sexy Show? Feet Do Travel
Inside a "booth" in Amsterdam's Museum of Prostitution
It was a few years ago when I went to a “show” and, as a woman, for years I recall being fascinated how these girls had trained their bodies to hold, eject and blow objects using just their pelvic muscles! I will actually confess to trying a couple of tricks myself upon my return home, and I seriously have no idea how they managed to “smoke a cigarette” or even hold a pen, let alone write a few words in legible “hand writing”.
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It is when I re-read my travel journal recently that I realised I had forgotten the darker side. If I’m honest, I hadn’t just “forgotten”, I didn’t really know the truth surrounding this industry at the time I visited. I was unaware that it’s the women’s responsibility in Thai culture to look after their elders.

​Girls in rural villages (for example Isaan) drop out of school as young as 14, move to Bangkok, get a very well paid job within the sex industry, and send their earnings back home to support their family. As long as the family can survive, no questions are asked about where this money comes from.
Ping Pong Show at Patpong night market Bangkok, Thailand red light district. Sex Tourism or Sexy Show? Feet Do Travel
The sadness that I felt when watching the ping pong show become lost over time. My memory must have glossed over this part, instead, my mind became fixated on figuring out how these girls did what they did!  Upon reflection, naivety clearly played a huge part! Of this, I am not proud.

The following is the extract from my journal – whilst reading, please bear in mind that all acts are performed from a lady’s foo-foo and nothing else!!

Extract from journal

The time was 7.30pm and I was driven to Patpong district by a maniac tuk-tuk driver. He drove so fast, I wondered if I would actually arrive alive and in one piece.

We stopped at a seedy part of town rife with pick-pockets and scammers but, as I didn’t hang around either before or after the “show”, I managed to escape unscathed!  (NB I have since read many, many reports of the Ping pong show scam, especially upstairs bars offering “happy hour” drinks with a free show. Before you leave, you are presented with a hefty bill of 3,600 Baht for three drinks!  If you are thinking of going, BE WARNED!  Have your wits about you. Read up on the scams so you know to be aware when approached).
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The Bangkok night market in Patpong is aimed mainly for tourists, and when I arrived, I didn’t personally feel comfortable shopping there. It felt sleazy, I didn’t feel “safe”, I was constantly looking around me all the time. I was on edge. I could tell this was the Thailand Red Light District.
Ping Pong Show at Patpong night market Bangkok, Thailand red light district. Sex Tourism or Sexy Show? Feet Do Travel
The building was non-descript. There were no signs advertising the name of the establishment, just two brown doors guarded by a couple of men in white shirts who showed us in and up the stairs. The entrance charge of 500 baht (£12/13€/US$16) was a shocker, but included a free drink which was some consolation. 
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Inside wasn’t how I imagined. I thought it would be busier with tables and a bar, people socialising and chatting to one another – basically a bit more “life”. Instead, it was a small room with chairs facing a stage.

The audience watch girls come on stage one by one to “perform”, then disappear backstage. Reality struck … we were going to just sit and watch women firing ping-pong balls from their vagina.

​There would be no sitting around a table, chatting to one another with “the show” going on around. No good-time happy laughter or sexy girls (or men dressed as girls, we are in Thailand after all) proud of their bodies dancing seductively. Suddenly, it all felt very seedy.​
Ping Pong Show at Patpong night market Bangkok, Thailand red light district. Sex Tourism or Sexy Show? Feet Do Travel

The first girl walked onto the stage and did nothing other than dance topless. Sometimes she would hold onto a pole, not dance around the pole in a seductive way, just literally put her hand on the pole. 
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She looked bored and didn’t dance sexily, in fact she didn’t really dance at all. She just moved a little – like she needed to pee and was jiggling to hold it in – I jiggle more when I need to pee!  



​Some of the performers “tricks” were (and I won’t lie) – amazing. This is a list of some of their “talents”

  • A machine shot a banana into the air ... and the girl caught it (and not with her hands or mouth!)
  • Ping pong balls were fired into a glass (the girl actually missed a few times, and on one occasion, a ball bounced off the stage. A member of the audience threw it back ... I hope he washed his hands afterwards)
  • Birthday candles were blown out using a shooter to direct “the flow of air”
  • A similar device was used to shoot darts and pop a balloon positioned on a gentleman’s head
  • A string of razors were pulled out to make a paper chain
  • Two cigarettes were smoked 
  • Whistles were blown
  • “Welcome to Bangkok” was written on a piece of white A4 using a marker pen – now this took some skill!  I was given the piece of paper as a “souvenir” 
  • 12 metres of string were pulled out (very slowly) in a line – goodness knows what else she could store up there! Maybe she had removed her intestines to allow room for it all!
  • Bottles were opened (I was given a bottle top) 
  • Half a bottle of coke was “drunk” then emptied back into another bottle – that could come in handy in a bar! 
Ping Pong Show at Patpong night market Bangkok, Thailand red light district. Sex Tourism or Sexy Show? Feet Do Travel
How neat is this "hand writing"?!
Some of the girls smiled but most of them didn’t, it was a harsh realisation how sleazy the show was. It was very visible that the girls did not want to be here, they didn’t want to be a part of this, they were not doing this feeling good about themselves. Clearly they didn’t feel sexy or want to give you a good time.

​They were here to perform for your money, they were here because they were being paid. It wasn’t about making you feel good. Sex tourism in Thailand is only about the money.

I repeatedly had the feeling that I was watching these girls do something they didn’t want to do. But I was also confused. They have to practice these tricks, therefore time and thought went into their “performance. I know it may sound insensitive, but I thought it would be awesome to be able to do some of their party tricks.
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But I didn’t know their story, how they got here or why they were there. And in truth, if I could do what they could, I wouldn’t be doing it on a stage in front of strangers.
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I was there an hour and the “performance” was repeated, it was therefore time for me to leave. Outside, this small backstreet was quiet with no tourists, apart from one white man who was urging people not to go into the bar. He was chased away by a Thai “security guard” yielding a large wooden stick.
Ping Pong Show at Patpong night market Bangkok, Thailand red light district. Sex Tourism or Sexy Show? Feet Do Travel
Human rights concerns

Naturally, there are always issues of concern working within any sex industry, and these shows are no different.  The majority of the works are from poor, rural families. They used to work in factories, until the economic downturn forced their closure and it is suspected that many of the girls are also prostitutes. Taina Bien-Aime, Executive Director of Equality Now wrote "Working 14 hours [a day] in a factory or blowing ping pong balls out of your vagina should not be a person's only choices in life”.

It has been referred to as a misogynistic industry and “human zoo tourism”.  This place exists purely for tourists, and is a place of curiosity for many visitors to Bangkok (myself included!).
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Final thoughts

In conclusion, I am not saying you shouldn’t go and see a show. Not only would that be hypocritical of me, but I don’t feel it’s my place to say who should and shouldn’t do anything.

I didn’t know at the time that these shows are mainly for foreigners. That by watching a show, as a tourist, I was contributing to sex tourism. In the same way that I have now learnt riding an elephant or cuddling a tiger is contributing towards animal torture and abuse, I now know that going to a ping pong show has a seedier, dark side. 

It’s not about having a giggle at a strip show.

If a decision is an informed one, ie you know that sex tourism here is rife, that you are aware of scams etc, then YOU can decide if you would like to see what all the fuss is about!

Have you been to a show in Thailand, whether for a hen/stag event, with a group of friends or your partner? Talk to us in the comment section below, or feel free to send us a private message.

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14 Comments
Jenn | By Land and Sea
15/7/2018 11:58:15 pm

Angie, thanks so much for sharing this post! Well I openly admit to hearing about ping-pong shows when I was a little girl courtesy of the movie the adventures of Priscilla Queen of the desert, I must admit it’s just not my thing. We are going to Thailand early next year and I am making sure did you research to avoid the scams and this sort of stuff that we just don’t enjoy. Thanks for sharing!

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FeetDoTravel
17/7/2018 02:20:41 am

Definitely research on scams, as there are many in Bangkok, and if you don't go near Patpong Night Market, you won't be caught up in the Ping Pong Show scams so that's one less to worry about. Priscilla is such a funny movie isn't it, I saw the live stage show and that was better.

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California Globetrotter link
3/8/2018 12:33:49 pm

That was incredibly fascinating to read! Don't know if I could have personally sat through one of those shows, but since having studied Women's Studies at Uni, and knowing more about sex traffic and sex tourism today, I can definitely say I won't be going and supporting it. #FeetDoTravel

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Paul and Carole link
4/8/2018 09:47:33 am

Really interesting and accurate information here. We have observed this type of show and just found it very sad. We love Thailand but not side of tourism. Good to see honest posts like this. #feetdotravel

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Shona link
5/8/2018 09:51:36 am

I haven't been to the shows at PatPong but Soi Cowboy was a stone's throw from where we lived in Sukhumvit. Same same just different location. There are similar sub sois in Silom with boys and of course, Nana Plaza has the lady boy market covered.
Mechai (Thai for Condom) Viravaidya is famous for recognising the need for educating poor rural communities in family planning, STDs and alternate ways to earn a living outside the sex industry.
His restaurants, Cabbages & Condoms, finance these projects and his biography is fascinating. Worth a read on the plane to the US, Angie. ;-)

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Emese link
5/8/2018 07:30:22 pm

This was an interesting read, Angie. I have never heard of this; I have to admit I have trouble imagining the "tricks" you described. I appreciate you sharing this side of the "tourism" industry; I really think people need to be aware of it. I'm sure that many unsuspecting foreigners end up going to these "shows" without realizing what they would be watching.

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Anna link
5/8/2018 09:38:07 pm

Thanks so much for your honesty! I also remember myself years ago wanting to ride an elefant and cuddling a tiger: I´m so happy now I see things differently... I guess, with more honest stories like this one, more and more people try to see the effects of their actions.

After reading your post - I won´t go to see the Ping Pong show, for sure. Although, I´m also a liberal thinker and usualy admire any kind of "out of ordinary talens".If someone masters any kind of skill and enjoys doing what they do - that´s awesome for me. But realizing the stories behind the jobs these girls chooze and the fact that they "did not want to be there": this would made me very sad...

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Sharon link
6/8/2018 05:15:15 pm

Well, this is a new one for me. Pole dancing yes, but the other tricks? Wow. I think it would leave me very sad to see that these girls are probably doing this to support their families and they weren't smiling. And they are probably so young it's forming their adult take on life. I'm glad to know, on the other hand, that the Amsterdam ladies are protected and unionized. Maybe the ladies are older, too, which makes a difference in how I look at it...

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Stephanie (1AdventureTraveler) link
8/8/2018 01:23:34 pm

Great post and expressed how I feel about the show. The girls stories and information provided was very informational. I too have been to one of these shows many many years ago, but unlike your show this was done in a loud dancing bar with lots of people around tables. Lots of girls on stage basically now as I look just really standing there barely moving, then one girl was done shooting ping pong balls. I look back now and sorry I went. Thanks for sharing! #feetdotravel

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Trippin' Turpins (Kelly) link
9/8/2018 01:50:30 am

and don't forget the animal cruelty of some performances! Such as a bird being inserted into a woman nether regions (as you put it). I don't mind watching strip show etc but the sleazy sex industry in Thailand is dreadful. Even in the Go Go bars or other strip clubs the girls are so lack lustre and unenthusiastic.

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Kreete link
9/8/2018 10:34:27 am

Certainly makes you think doesn't it! I have to say I didn't know what a ping pong show was before you mentioned it and I have to say I don't think I'll ever be attending either. I am glad you have had this experience though as you were able to share it with the rest of us who haven't. It does make sense to count it as prostitution. I would.. And it sucks if the girls HAVE to do it to feed their families..

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Travel Lexx link
9/8/2018 05:49:15 pm

I remember visiting Patpong on like my second day of my first ever trip to Bangkok and the shows didn't even appeal then! Really interesting to read about the whole thing especially as I am unlikely to ever see one! Probably a bit TMI regarding your personal training on your return home :D

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Dave link
20/4/2019 10:06:02 pm

Queen 2 upstairs. Do not go! Just as described. The girls are unhappy but you will be too... they rip you off like crazy. $4,000 batt cover charge and forced lady drinks even if you say no. You have been warned stupid...

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Charlene
15/9/2019 09:00:42 am

I went to see a show and paid 5OO baht, I paid for 3 ppl so totaly was 15OO, I was told for an hour show. One drink for each person included included,
My boyfriend was not well and went to the bathroom where he was literally harrassed and could not use the toilet as women followed him in. He left and went to starbucks to use the bathroom.
After every act the performer asked for more money. I had read online that this was a way for tourists to pay more. I refused each time. She then wrote tip on the paper with her vagina. I said my boyfriend has the money (he had left to go to the toilet , When he return she yelled 'tip tip tip' as soon as he walked through the door.. I just said no, by this point, I had been asked 5 times in 15 mins for tips, She then stopped the show and said your show is finished, at first i felt very cheated but now i actually feel so guilty for not tipping her. I would of tipped at the end but the fact that i was being hounded throughout the performance just stopped me from doing so. I feel now very sad and distrubed by what I watched, so much that I am looking into donating some money to either a child in thailand or to anti-sex trafficking in thailand programme.

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